You want to attract women, so you should listen to women about how to do this. It sounds logical enough, but if you’re really interested in getting the woman you want, you should never listen to what women say about dating. Women only think they know what they want. The really intelligent ones know that they want things other than what they tell you they want, but most of them don’t even realize that their dream man is very different from the perfect boyfriend that every woman says she wants.
Women often tell men to treat the woman they’re interested in with respect and bring her gifts like flowers or fine chocolates. It’s classy, it’s romantic, and it doesn’t work in any dating arena. If you’re looking for women in nightclubs or other social venues, know that these ladies are going to be on-guard for predators. As a matter of course, they’ll put any man who approaches them through a battery of tests. The unsuccessful suitor either fails her tests or passes them at his own expense. The successful suitor, on the other hand, lets his lady know that he’s got enough quality to not need to pass her tests — he’s exempt. This is the answer that women of quality secretly want to hear. As for flowers and chocolates, don’t even consider them until the fourth or fifth date, and even then, find out what her preferences and allergies are before you make that kind of investment. Read more...